Category Archives: rambling

uncle albert

We’re so sorry, Uncle Albert
But we haven’t done a fucking thing all day

Admiral Halsey notified me…

fooled around and fell in love – song on the radio

Song “Fooled Around and Fell in Love” came out when I was 16. By then I was already changing the gender mentioned to suit me better when singing along.

I must have been through about a million guys
I’d love ’em then I’d leave ’em alone
I didn’t care how much they cried, no sir
Their tears left me cold as a stone

halloween decor in december

December 1st and I finally take down the Halloween decorations and lay them on the porch.

secret matching donor

All of the sudden every org in the world has a secret matching donor, so you can double your donation. I don’t even believe a word of that.

Donate to my Fanta Brotherhood (the orange soda). Lot of secrets in that. 🥤🍊

weird t-shirt arrival

These t-shirts showed up in my mailbox shipped from China. I didn’t order these.

Maybe some kind of weird psyop. I don’t want this shit.

churches

I’m not much of a conventional church goer. I guard my beliefs rather closely but slightly hint about them sometimes.


With that said, especially in Latin America, I enjoy going into huge cathedrals, walking around quietly, and having a seat for awhile to meditate and soak in the atmosphere. Feel the whirl of time and history.


In spite of being contrarian, if somebody invites me to church, I usually go, unless I know ahead of time that’s it’s nuts in there. I can have a pretty good time anywhere for an hour or so.

Esmond Wilson

Zachary Esmond Wilson of High Point. My first love when still in high school.

He died quite young and I didn’t get to say goodbye.

swank ramen

A lunch ramen so elegant that I didn’t even bother to put it in a bowl. lol.

This one’s quite nice though. We order them from Amazon.

starving artist in havana 2005

Near the book fair in the previous post was this artist making sketches of the cathedral and plaza.

As is evident in the pic, he was sweet and friendly. I think he had picked up on the gay vibe.

I should have leaned over and gone, “psst! Wanna make $200 real quick?” lol. Nah, we don’t operate like that.

2005 cuba trip

In 2005, my spouse and I sneaked over to Cuba from the USA via Cancun. I always wanted to see it, plus it was kind of a forbidden-fruit type of trip. Everything went great.

Once we got back home, we discovered that my cousin had been over there at the same time with her husband on their honeymoon. Like us, they had been low-key about it, so none of us knew about the others beforehand.

While there. We walked by plenty of portraits, and sometimes a bust, of people like José Martí, Fidel Castro, and Lenin. Not a single one of them rolled its eyes, hissed, or tried to touch us inappropriately.

In the pic below, we went to a book fair in Havana. We were so disappointed that the one in the pic kept blocking our camera view of the books. 😁