Category Archives: rambling

i don’t do mass on Christmas Eve anymore, but…

For a number of years, my mother insisted that we go to Catholic mass at OLG (Our Lady of Grace) on Christmas Eve to honor my brother who was in the process of becoming Catholic when he died. I would not choose to go to a mass on my own, but it helped my non-Catholic mother to process, I thought it was an OK way to honor my brother and the wishes of my mother, and I can get through a mass OK even though that religion is not my thing.

There are many things that would prevent me from ever being Catholic, but I take comfort in that at OLG, they took real good care of my brother, and they knew the whole nine yards about him, the whole kit and caboodle.

To me, “not my thing” doesn’t mean it’s not valid. I can respect.

This is my holiday homily. I rarely do them. I usually just yuck it up.

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GD! 😎

#wikileaks

i ruined it for everyone

My lounging around the house shirt.

warm wishes

A most unusual holiday card arrived in the mail today. I don’t yet understand the riddle, but I know who it is from.

#mattl

replace facebook with personal websites?

“the urge to post about their lives online”

I like this. To me, this is what it’s about. Documenting my mundane life and reading the same about others. Vain, stupid, glorious, whatever. I appreciate when people take the time to write a little something about themselves. Whether it’s Facebook or a personal website, as long as people are creating original content, I am interested. The downside is that Facebook and Twitter encourage frenetic retweeting (reposting) that is low value to me, though it’s part of the cost of using those platforms that many of us are willing to pay to hang with friends. For all its faults, WordPress has a great number of users that are documenting their thinking and lives, and they are often alone with it. It’s one of the places I like to dive deep.

I mostly don’t care if anybody reads my things, and some of the places I post, probably nobody does. Just the process of writing up something on a regular basis is often stabilizing and therapeutic to me.

Story link: We Should Replace Facebook With Personal Websites – Motherboard

midge

Midge, named by her first human companion, was a very good girl. Her first human was going into long-term care, so my mother was asked to care for Midge. My mother then asked me to care for her. She lived to a very old age. The vet called her “the world’s oldest living Chihuahua”. She outlived enough humans to where we didn’t know how old she was. Pic from 2003.

Small Dog Club posthumous honorary member.

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mole

I have sometimes hoped that someone would criticize my fluff posting with something like, “Don’t you ever work on the issues?” Then I could counter with, “The fluff posting might be a cover.”

Yes, the fluff is a cover, or this post might be a cover of cover.

fb cleanse

For the second time in two months I have scrubbed my Facebook wall. It’s in case I lose my GD mind over world gone mad. I’m ok on other networks, but FB feed triggers me. Twitter, WordPress, MeWe, VK don’t bother me. Who knows.

fakety FB

So comforting.

Screenshot_2018-12-18 Facebook

gonna miss flickr

Brian and I paid the “discounted” 1st-year ransom to SmugMug for our beloved old flickr account while copying all of it over to Piwigo for safekeeping. I moved 11,500 pics (15 GB) last night. Piwigo will get the next renewal. SmugMug pissed me off.

#piwigo #flickr #smugmug